It’s budget baby time! And to get right into it, my first and foremost frugal tip is this… breastfeed your baby!
Why is this my top suggestion for saving money? Because it’s free! And formula is expensive. I’m not even sure how much formula is, but everyone I know who uses it complains about the cost. And, I know that its starting price can’t be very low when I receive coupons for “$5 off one can of formula” in the mail.
Benefits
Cost. Again, It’s free! Awesome.
Convenient. There is already so much to have to pack when you go on an outing with a baby. It’s really nice to not have to worry about adding bottles of formula to that already heavy diaper bag.
Health. There are so many health benefits for baby and for mom! There are books on it! I won’t write my own.
Bonding. It’s a really amazing thing to feed your baby this way. It means you get to cuddle with them many times throughout the day… so special. And it is beyond words to watch your baby suck and know that all of his nutrition and his growth is being provided by you!
Weight loss. I was amazed at how quickly I was back to my pre-prego weight. That is a really nice benefit of breastfeeding! Unfortunately, I’m still not back to my pre-prego body. But I’m pretty sure that is a benefit of working out… more often than I have been!
Challenges
Supply. It seems like supply is the biggest deterrent to breastfeeding. Some women just never quite produce enough milk to keep up with their baby’s needs. I am so thankful to say that I’ve always had enough. However, in the beginning, I had an over-supply… and this didn’t thrill Hutch’s immature little sucker. Way too much milk would come way too fast and he would get so mad at me… which made me so sad and led to some tears for the both of us! But, this is just something that is remedied with time. Hutch learned to suck a little better and my body figured out that it could slow down a bit. In those first weeks, it was a common sight to see what husband and I called the “milk-splosion.”
Feeding in public. This over-supply and milk-splosion definitely made it really hard to breastfeed very discreetly in public those first few weeks. Plus, the baby isn’t very good at latching yet. But once those things settled, it got a little easier. But then came curious, distracted, wiggly Hutch who refuses to keep the cover or blanket over him when there is anyone else around.
Fashion. While it’s a lot of fun to dress your baby bump all cute during pregnancy, I know that I looked forward to being able to wear my regular clothes again. Little did I know that a lot of them would have to remain sidelined for a while. I love to wear dresses. But most of my dresses are breastfeeding un-friendly. I can’t pull the front down enough, and hiking the whole thing up is just awkward for everyone involved. But, it’s gotten easier now that Hutch can go longer without needing to eat.
Pumping & Hospitalization. I had thyroid surgery when Hutch was six months old and this was by far my biggest breastfeeding challenge. Due to medications and such, the doctors didn’t want me to breastfeed for 48 hours. So the weeks leading up to the surgery I pumped, and pumped, and pumped. And then in order to keep up my supply, I had to continue to pump (& dump) every few hours in the hospital. I remember my hospital roommate being very annoyed by the sound of the pump… but the nurse just told her it was a monitoring machine. Oh, and by the way, my nurse was a younger guy… that’s not awkward to have him walk in on you pumping! Needless to say, I’ve just about had my fill of pumping. I try to do it here and there just to have an emergency stash… but without the necessity, I’m a bit of a slacker. But I am very thankful to have had such a good pump!
These are just the challenges I encountered. I recognize that there are a lot more challenges to breastfeeding than these… some that prevent mothers from breastfeeding their babies. But for those who are able, breastfeeding really is wonderful. And for those just starting out, don’t let the challenges discourage you. So many people told me that it gets easier sometime after 4-6 weeks… be encouraged, this is true!
For those who made it this far, I hope that all of booby talk hasn’t been too much for you and I hope the photos haven’t offended you. For those who wish they hadn’t made it this far, feel free to stop reading now! : )
I will leave you with this: my very first breastfeeding moment. What a special gift God has given mothers… to add on to the very miracle of pregnancy and childbirth!